| Enjoying the music at Bushfire |
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Flashback: My Last Teen Club :(
When teens are asked what topics they want to learn about at Teen Club, sexual issues are often first on the list. There are numerous myths and misconceptions all over the world when it comes to sex. This is especially true in a conservative country like Botswana where teachers, caregivers, and even some healthcare workers are reluctant to talk openly with teenagers, deeming this topic inappropriate and unnecessary for adolescents. I was asked to play an active role in planning a Teen Club about sex so that the Teen Club staff could make sure that all the information which was presented was medically correct. The planning sessions became a bit tense in the weeks leading up to the event, as some of the clinic staff did not feel that it was appropriate to have such a discussion with the teens. However, after much debate it was acknowledged that this is a critical subject for all teens and that Teen Club is probably they only place they are going to get to have their questions answered in an open, honest and medically correct way.
In preparation for this discussion/forum, teens were notified a month earlier that the June Teen Club would be about sex, giving them enough time and opportunity to prepare questions. The team placed a visible box in the clinic for them to write down anonymous questions about sex and sexual health.
On the day of the event, teens were divided into the usual two groups (13-15 and 16-19 year olds). For the younger teens we had 3 stations: playing games; dispelling myths (as you can see me explaining above); and a short discussion on puberty and importance of abstinence. The teens rotated from station to station every 40 minutes. There was concern that that some might not be mature enough for the topics, but once again they surprised us with their maturity, concentration, and engagement with the subject.
During the short discussion on puberty we taught them about the normal changes that the body goes through, as they get older, the importance of abstinence and the need for protection when abstinence is impossible. We also answered many of the questions they had about sexual issues and puberty. During the myths/facts session the teens were given a myth and asked to go to the area of the courtyard corresponding to their feelings about the myth (true, false, or don’t know). We then discussed the answers in detail, dispelling such myths as “two condoms are better than one” (two condoms are NOT better than one!) and “a girl cannot get pregnant if she has sex standing up” (She CAN!) which are two common myths in Botswana.
The older teens had male and female condom demonstrations led by three wonderful volunteers from the Ministry of Health (MOH), who volunteered their time and expertise on a Saturday. Their experience is extensive – they have conducted demonstrations all over Botswana in many different settings from schools to community centers to other public gatherings.
Teens were divided based on gender, in an effort to encourage more open discussion and stimulate questions. Most were eager to share what they thought to be correct information about condoms and their use. The demonstrations certainly stimulated questions ranging from myths of pregnancy and changes the body goes through during puberty to more complex issues such as age of sexual debut and perceived ideas about the roles of a man and a woman in a relationship.
Then all the older teens were brought together and their questions were answered (both those they had placed in the question box and those which they came up with on the spot). Once encouraged these young men and women were eager to take the opportunity to ask and demystify concepts about sex and sexual health. Due to time constraints we were unable to answer every single question and will definitely have to have more sessions on this topic in the future.
All in all, the event went better than the team expected. The teens were serious and mature about discussing the subject, even more so than many adults when placed in similar situations. We felt their appreciation through their enthusiastic participation, eager concentration, and mature disposition.
At the end of the event, the teens surprised us with a dance number and kind words to say goodbye to me and Gelane as it was our last teen club. We both expressed to them how much we had learned from them and how their strength and resilience are truly an inspiration to all.
Friday, August 5, 2011
Transitions
| Gelane, Bri, Premal and I were super sad to say good bye to each other! I know we will keep in touch, but after 2 years of living, working, traveling together it was really hard to part. |
www.sun.ac.za/southtosouth.I am the Pediatric Clinical Advisor which means I will be doing training and mentoring of healthcare workers (nurses, doctors, lay counselors, etc). A lot of my time (about 40%) will be spent traveling around the country. Right now we are focusing on a district called Moretele which is in the Northwest Province of South Africa (about 2 hours north of Johannesburg), more on that in a few weeks after I have actual been.
| Almost half of my residency class managed to make it to Sonia's wedding! |
| Sonia and Elliott are officially married |
| Josie, beautiful daughter of Meredith and Trevor |
| Walter, adorable son of Ruth and Robert |
I will try to post a few flashbacks of my last months in Bots and then will move on to giving you a sense of life in Cape Town. Right now it is a lot of logistics, finding an apartment, buying a car, opening a bank account, etc but photos and details of all those things to come!
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Adventures in April
The last week in April was an time for another adventure. Josanna, Elizabeth, Bilen, and I drove from Gabs to Rustenberg, spent the night at a cute bed and breakfast and had our customary sushi dinner at the Cape Town Fish Market in Rustenberg. The next morning we drove to Joburg arriving with plenty of time to sort out where to leave my car. We ended up giving the car to Jacob a guy who works for a valet service at the joburg airport. They have a business where they pick up cars at the departure terminal, take care of them (including washing them) and return them to the arrival terminal upon your return. They came highly recommended by the owners of the Bed and Breakfast in Rustenberg. Though I was still pretty skeptical of giving my car to a total stranger in a city known for car theft, it worked out! He drove us from the airport to the bus terminal and was there with the car when we came back and it was cleaner than it has been in a long time! Our bus was 1.5 late so we left Joburg at 11:30 pm and arrived in Maputo at 9:30 am the next day after an uneventful bus ride where we were able to sleep a bit. From Maputo we got a ride to Bilene a beach town about 3.5 hr away.
Bilene was a really tranquil place. Not too touristy. We stayed at a place about a 45 min walk from town which was on the lagoon beach. We spent three days relaxing at the beach, snorkeling with sea horses, and hanging out at a great local bar. Chichunga's became our home away from home. Each day we bought fish from women whose husbands had caught it that morning and Chichunga marinated it during the day and cooked it for us that night. It was the best fish I have ever had (as you can see in the pictures, we did not leave any behind).
After 3 days, we rode back to Maputo and met up with Gelane (who had been to Cape Town with plans to run the 1/2 marathon - though those plans were thwarted by shin splints she still had a good time there). Maputo is a much busier city than Gabs, and a lot dirtier. We took tuc tucs around the city, explored an old fort, ate at the fish market, and did a fair amount of shopping. At night we found a great bar/club which had live karaoke and the following night a reggae band. We had a minor run in with the police since we were not carrying our passports on our way to a club! They pulled us over during a random stop (when we happened to have 6 people (including the driver) in a cab which is apparently not allowed, though many more unsafe modes of transport seem to be just fine) and told us that we were supposed to have our passports with us at all times. After much hemming and hawing (I think they were just looking for us to bribe them), they finally agreed to accompany us back to the backpackers where we were staying so we could show them our passports and then they left us alone. There were also several run ins with giant rats everywhere we went, not the best when you are eating!
After another overnight bus ride back to Joburg we drove to the Drakensberg mountains (a mountain range on the border of South Africa and Lesotho). It was gorgeous. We stayed at a great backpackers where there happened to be the "Smoking Dragon's Women's Music Festival"that weekend. 48 hours of music from woman performers. It was great fun though we will have to go back to actually explore the Drakensberg since we didn't get to do any hiking.
Here is the trip in pictures: )
Bilene was a really tranquil place. Not too touristy. We stayed at a place about a 45 min walk from town which was on the lagoon beach. We spent three days relaxing at the beach, snorkeling with sea horses, and hanging out at a great local bar. Chichunga's became our home away from home. Each day we bought fish from women whose husbands had caught it that morning and Chichunga marinated it during the day and cooked it for us that night. It was the best fish I have ever had (as you can see in the pictures, we did not leave any behind).
After 3 days, we rode back to Maputo and met up with Gelane (who had been to Cape Town with plans to run the 1/2 marathon - though those plans were thwarted by shin splints she still had a good time there). Maputo is a much busier city than Gabs, and a lot dirtier. We took tuc tucs around the city, explored an old fort, ate at the fish market, and did a fair amount of shopping. At night we found a great bar/club which had live karaoke and the following night a reggae band. We had a minor run in with the police since we were not carrying our passports on our way to a club! They pulled us over during a random stop (when we happened to have 6 people (including the driver) in a cab which is apparently not allowed, though many more unsafe modes of transport seem to be just fine) and told us that we were supposed to have our passports with us at all times. After much hemming and hawing (I think they were just looking for us to bribe them), they finally agreed to accompany us back to the backpackers where we were staying so we could show them our passports and then they left us alone. There were also several run ins with giant rats everywhere we went, not the best when you are eating!
After another overnight bus ride back to Joburg we drove to the Drakensberg mountains (a mountain range on the border of South Africa and Lesotho). It was gorgeous. We stayed at a great backpackers where there happened to be the "Smoking Dragon's Women's Music Festival"that weekend. 48 hours of music from woman performers. It was great fun though we will have to go back to actually explore the Drakensberg since we didn't get to do any hiking.
Here is the trip in pictures: )
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Training, Passover, and Tutoring
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Yoga, Jazz, and Family
| The gorgeous coast along the Garden Route |
| The kids who guided us to the elusive eye |
On Sunday I left the retreat by way of a packed combi (minivans used for public transport around South Africa) to travel to Johannesburg and meet my parents who had arrived a few days earlier. The following day we flew to George along the Southern coast of South Africa, rented a car and began to drive the Garden Route.
The Garden Route is the stretch of coastline between Port Elizabeth and Cape Town. It is a gorgeous drive filled with amazing mountain passes, beautiful beaches, and lots of good fish dinners (something I never get in Botswana)! We spent the first two nights at an amazing B+B in Plettenberg Bay. The owner was an amazing cook and the location was amazing. While there we went to the Tsitsikama National Park and hiked to Storm's River Mouth and part of the way to the waterfall. I even convinced my dad to go zip-lining!
| On the bridge at the Storms River Mouth |
| Along the way to the waterfall (we did not have time for the whole hike but the views were breathtaking) |
| Eric the Farmer |
| A photo opportunity in one of the mountain pass |
We arrived in Cape Town on Friday in time for the Cape Town International Jazz Festival which just so happened to be the weekend my parents decided to visit (what great timing). We saw some amazing performances, among them: Hugh Masekela, Earth Wind and Fire and even my friend Matt who was playing with Citie a guitar player from Botswana (the first Botswana artist to perform at the Jazz Festival).
| Hugh Masekela (sorry no matter what I do this picture won't rotate, so you will just have to turn your head ;) |
| Citie on guitar and Matt on sax |
| Dad smelling the flowers at the section of the Botanical Gardens designed for blind people (all the plants had powerful smells and signs about them were translated into Braille as well.) |
| The Philharmonic performed to a packed crowd of serious picnickers (these people were really hard core about the picnicking right down to the stakes which held wine glasses!) |
| My parents and their friends Richard and Bobbie Polton (who joined us in Cape Town) and were able to find some nice recycled art of their own with the master artists |
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